Advice dating a married man
It may be fun to sneak around, and to entertain fantasies of this guy choosing you – but what if his wife catches you?No matter which way you look at it, at least one person is going to get hurt. If this guy is the love of your life, and you want to make a serious relationship with him work, tell him he will need to make a choice between you and his wife.His statement of leaving his wife could be taken seriously if he were finalizing a divorce, but this is not the case.
Do you honestly believe dating a married man can give you the happiness you want out of a relationship? The truth is, there are a lot more men out there who can make you happier.
A woman who is only there to comfort him and get his needs met.
As explained in many of my posts, dating a married man is a win/lose situation, the man is going to be the winner, all the time, he is going to get a second woman who is going to comfort him, please him in every way he wants and even worse, dump his problems on her, while the woman is only going to get crumbles, maybe some affection from time to time, but most of the time, she will suffer from terrible psychological issues, she will feel down all the time and she will see herself as not worthy of having a true and solid relationship.
Dating someone who is married is hazardous and painful, not always but usually.
You obviously have strong feelings about this relationship but try not to let this infatuation blind you to the reality of the situation.